“Confessions Of A Future Bride” | Post 31

We continue our wedding blog series with a post about wedding bands…

“In all honesty.. I almost forgot about getting the wedding bands:) This was actually something that Arthur took the lead on. It was such a small thing, but I was so glad that Arthur set up a time for us to go check out some bands with our great friend Rachel {Another Rachel.. Not me obviously:) }who works at Kay Jewelers. It was nice to have one tiny thing that was not put on my plate.

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So off to Kays we went! Let me tell you.. Choosing a wedding band was a lot harder than I thought it would be! When I was walking into the store, I had a style in mind. I was thinking that I wanted a regular band with small diamonds in it.. But after trying some on with my engagement ring, I couldn’t make up my mind! So Rachel gave me a great piece of advice.. She told me to find a band that I liked on it’s own, then to try it on with my engagement ring. And I ended up with a ring that I did not expect to be walking out with!

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I love, love, love my choice. I was just saying to Arthur the other day that I could not wait until we actually had the rings.. And he says to me “Rach, you know you can’t wear it until the wedding, right?”:) I’m just super excited!!

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And I am a terrible fiancé.. I did not even take a picture of Art’s ring😦 I didn’t even realize until I had sent a picture of my band to my mom and she said send me one of Art’s.. Oops:) {So I went on the Kay Jeweler’s website and took a screen shot of it} When Art was trying on rings, it looked so weird to see a ring on his finger! I told Rachel to give him a size smaller, because that thing is never coming off :)”

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~The Future Mrs. Bongiorno

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“Confessions Of A Future Bride” | Post 30

Hello my friends! If you noticed last week we didn’t post our normal #weddingwednesdays post because Rachel wasn’t feeling well. I decided that we could use the day off to recoup.

But we are back at it again!!!!

“So, I was super slacking with booking our honeymoon.. Everyone was asking “Where are you going on your honeymoon?!” And I would have to say.. Umm.. I have yet to book it:) So then I would hear “You have to go on a honeymoon!!”
And to be honest, Arthur and I were contemplating not going on a honeymoon at first.. The wedding is just so damn expensive! Plus we are trying to buy a house after the wedding:) Buttttt… I would then hear “If you don’t go on a honeymoon now, {either} you’ll regret it {or} you’ll never make it up even though you say you will on your one year {or five year or ten year} anniversary!” Which I do know is true.. And I think we will regret it if we don’t.. 
With that being said, I knew we had to book the honeymoon.. Like real soon:) So Arthur and I finally made it to the travel agent.. We went to Liberty Travel in Newburgh and we were in and out! The woman we were working with said we were probably the fastest people in and out of there.. Ha ha.. I guess we are just pretty easy going. All we said was that we wanted to go some place beachy.. And that’s about it! 

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Since we don’t have our passports {And honestly, I just don’t have the time or feel like going through the hassle right now of getting them.. I have a few other things on my mind:) }, the first place the travel agent checked out was Puerto Rico. She showed us a few pictures and we were sold!! We will be visiting the Gran Melia Puerto Rico Golf Resort!! {And lucky for us, my fantastic friend/coworker, Melissa, knows of the resort and said it is awesome there!} We did book one excursion.. Only because Arthur’s eye lit up when she mentioned the zip lining excursion:)

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We are super excited for 7 nights in paradise!! As you can tell by all of my exclamation points and smiley faces throughout the post :)”
~ The Future Mrs. Bongiorno

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One | A Letter To My Boy

 

Dear Judah Aaron,

I cannot believe it has been one year with you in our lives! You have totally rocked our worlds for the better! I don’t think anyone could prepare us enough for your arrival even though I tried my hardest to be prepared. In fact, that is the first thing you have taught me in my first job of motherhood – you cannot prepare for everything. I’m still working on not controlling everything but since you came into this world, I think I’ve gotten better. You came into this world with a joy of taking on this world – literally. That was the whole reason for my c-section. You were a face presentation looking up and forward. No I didn’t plan for the c-section but like I said, you came into this world to teach me that I cannot plan for everything. Judah@One-16 Judah@One-15 Judah@One-13

Our first few weeks home were brutal! Hahaha Between the endless crying spouts and figuring out that you had acid reflux, I was really afraid that this new life with you would just be in tears (both you and I). lol But God is so good! Once figuring out what this issue was, you were able to heal and show us that joyous spirit that you have!

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I absolutely love your smile and your laugh (and your fake laugh)! It’s just contagious and your whole face lights up. The things that made you smile this past year are music and animals. Your love of music started really early when that was the only thing that would calm you at times. And as far as the animals goes, you loved your play mat with all of the animals on it. If I had to guess which animal was your favorite, I’d have to say it was a monkey. You love your animal sounds book and once the monkey says his “ooo–ooo–ahh—ahh” you beam!

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You love pancakes, eggs, rice, broccoli, baked potato but most of all these days you love chicken.

Your favorite tv shows are Mickey Mouse Clubhouse and Sesame Street. Your favorite character on the Mickey Mouse Clubhouse is Donald Duck, suprisingly. I wonder what that says about your personality. Haha He’s really silly and so are you!

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You’re not really attached to many soothing things but you do take a pacifier and you do love to cuddle with a blanky but you don’t NEED them. Which leads me to your sleep habits this past year – you haven’t been a big sleeper until recent weeks. In fact, these past two weeks have been the longest you’ve slept throughout the night. But for the past year you averaged getting up once (sometimes twice) in the middle of the night. I didn’t think it were possible for you to sleep through the night but like I said, these past two weeks I see a change! IT ONLY TOOK A YEAR! JEEZ! LOL JKJK You are a light sleeper and don’t nap for too long. An hour nap with you is phenomenal.

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You don’t really say much other than “haaaa = hi” or “dadadadada.” But you do babble a lot.

You truly are a blessing to our lives. I know it sounds cliche and all but I can’t really remember life without you. We love you so much my little bug!

Love,

Mommy

Breakfast at Erica’s | A Beginner’s Photography Workshop

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Have a camera but don’t really know how to use it??? Or are you looking to take better pictures of your children, pets or loved ones?? How about better photos for your business or blog? If you answered yes to any of these questions then this is the class for you!

EricaLee Photography is happy to announce their first photography workshop – “Breakfast at Erica’s!” You’ll have the chance to mingle with other newbies while eating a delicious brunch and learn some of the tricks of your camera in a nice, small intimate setting at my house!

Details

Price – $50.00 (with a $25.00 non refundable retainer paid in advance to hold your spot)

Date – Sunday, May 29th, 2016

Time – 11:00am – 2:00pm

Place – My Home (Middletown, NY)

Supplies Needed – A DSLR Camera aka digital camera aka not the camera that fit’s into your pocket & Memory Card

Whether your photographing semi-manually or only know how to turn your camera on and shoot there’s always room to learn more. We welcome all ranges of expertise!

Limited spots available so make sure to email me at efreitas116@gmail.com to book you spot!!

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“Confessions Of A Future Bride” | Post 29

IT’S THE MOMENT YOU ALL HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR….drum roll please……….WHO IS RACHEL’S PHOTOGRAPHER?????

“The time has come!! Now to introduce the most important part of the wedding day😉 THE PHOTOGRAPHER!!! 
So, of course, this was going to be a big part of my wedding planning… How does a wedding photographer pick their own wedding photographer?! After some searching and looking around, Erica helped me to discover Maddy at Mad Hearts Photography. There is a fun background story as to how Erica knows Maddy. When Erica first began her photography journey, Maddy was the one who helped Erica to learn the ropes and discover some new techniques.. And I think that helps to describe Maddy perfectly. She is exactly that type of person, one who would help someone out {including a newbie photographer}. 
Arthur and I were able to meet Maddy recently to complete our engagement photos {If you remember, Arthur and I had completed pictures with Erica not too long after our engagement}, but I think it is so important to have an engagement session with your wedding photographer so you can learn how you work with each other and get a see a sample of their great work!!
You can see some great photos from our engagement session from Maddy at Mad Hearts Photography!! Which one is your fav?!”

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~ The Future Mrs. Bongiorno

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“Confessions Of A Future Bride” | Post 28

If you are new to the blog and are just following along, here’s what you missed:

Rachel, my business partner/assistant/second shooter, recently got engaged and with us being photographers, thought it would be cool document her whole wedding planning process. Not only to keep these memories but to maybe help out one of our readers who may be a future bride as well as get suggestions from you guys. Here are the past posts that you’ve missed.

  1. Post 1 ~ We got a glimpse of how Rachel and her fiancé, Arthur met! It’s an adorable story including some very young pictures of them.
  2. Post 2 ~ We got to hear the story of how Arthur proposed in Bermuda! Check out that post to see her ring! It’s beautiful!
  3. Post 3 ~ Rachel said YES TO THE DRESS!! Check it out to see her experience at David’s Bridal!
  4. Venues! Venues! Venues! Post 4 | Post 5 | Post 6 | are her weeks in search for the perfect venue! And in Post 7 you get to hear the place that she chose!!!
  5. Post 8 ~ We are back at Davids Bridal picking out the Bridesmaids Dresses as well as seeing who she chose to stand up there with her on the big day!!
  6. Post 9 (maid of honor & big sis), Post 10 (little sis), Post 11 (cousin), Post 12 (sister-in-law), Post 13 (best friend), and Post 14 (MEE) ~This is where Rachel introduces her bridesmaids and tells us the background stories of how she knows them. There are some pretty funny moments and awesome pictures!
  7. Post 15 ~ Engagement Pictures!!!! Here, we get to see Rachel’s engagement session. I also give some tips on how to make the most of your engagement session.
  8. Post 16 ~ All about the “Save The Dates.”
  9. Post 17 ~ All about the DJ and some songs you don’t want to miss being played at the wedding!
  10. Post 18 ~ Bridal Registry! This is a fun post because I filmed it rather than photographing it!! Check it out!!
  11. Post 19 ~ Speed Round Questions with the Fiance’ himself!!!
  12. Post 20 ~ Special Valentines Day Post!
  13. Post 21 ~ To Peek or Not To Peek…That is the question!!! Will Rachel be doing a first look?
  14. Post 22 ~ Flowers, Flowers, Flowers!!! Time to talk about the Bouquet.
  15. Post 23 ~ This post is all about the Wedding Cake! mmmmmmmmmm
  16. Post 24 ~ Checklist of what has been done so far and what’s left to do!
  17. Post 25 ~ Tuxes Tuxes Tuxes!!! Arthur get’s his Tuxes! Rachel came up with a beautiful look for the guys!
  18. Post 26 ~ A Wedding DIY!!
  19. Post 27 ~ Rachel’s Hairstyle Ideas

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In today’s #weddingwednesdays post, Rachel will be discussing the rules or traditions that she’s either kept or did away with.

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“Lets talk about some wedding traditions and if  Arthur and I  chose to keep to the tradition or go with something new!
Rule: Your wedding dress has to be white.
-KEEP! I am keeping this one for sure.. To me this is not one I am into breaking, I am not a fan of different colored wedding dresses. The only place I have seen this is on Say Yes To The Dress…
Rule: You have to wear a long white veil.
-Keep.. Well my veil isn’t really long.. It is semi-long, up to around my elbows I guess
Rule: You can’t see each other until the ceremony.
-Not Keeping! {If you have been following the blog you will see} I am doing a first look for sure. Love, love, love first looks! {And I am hoping Arthur will shed a tear or two😉 }
Rule: You should make your exit in a shower of rice.
-Not Keeping. I am not sure if we are doing any kind of exit.. Maybe bubbles? I love the way bubbles look in photos! But I haven’t really thought too far into it:)
Rule: Bridesmaids are female and groomsmen are male.
-I am keeping this, but I have seen more and more lately where brides and grooms aren’t.. And I am not totally against it.. I think it actually makes out for really cool pictures.
Rule: Bridesmaids should wear matching dresses.
-Not Keeping! I had always planned on having the bridesmaids wear matching dresses, but I am so happy that I chose to let them pick their own dresses.. It makes everyone happier and the bride does not have to deal with any complaints about the dress :) 
I also like when bridesmaids have different color dresses!
Rule: Your father should walk you down the aisle.
-Keep! How could I not have my dad walk me down the aisle.. I am a Daddy’s girl after all:) However, I have seen brides have their mothers and even their sons walk them down the aisle which is of course special.
Rule: Your guests must be seated on two sides.
-Not sure if I am keeping.. I don’t really care one way or the other:) But of course we see often “Pick a seat, not a side” 
Rule: You need one flower girl and one ring bearer.
-Not keeping.. We are not having any flower girls or ring bearers.. 
Rule: Wedding ceremonies take place in religious institutions.
-Not keeping.. As you all know, I may reception is a Lippincott Manor and the ceremony is too. It is such a beautiful ceremony site in the middle of a field under a willow tree.. Can you get any more beautiful than that?!
Rule: You should register for fine china and kitchenware.
-Not keeping. I am not a fine china kind of gal.. Give me dishes from Target any day:)
Rule: Your engagement ring should be a diamond.
-Keep. If you have seen my ring, you can see that it is a diamond. But I have seen more and more lately engagement rings that have other stones .
Rule: You have to do a bouquet and garter toss.
-Keep. We will be doing a bouquet and garter toss. I just think they are so much fun:) Another option that people have been going with is an anniversary dance.”
~The Future Mrs. Bongiorno

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“Confessions Of A Future Bride” | Post 27

“(Come on) If you a fly gal get your nails done. Get a pedicure,get your hair did…” ~ Missy Elliott

PART I

“First, I would just like to ask.. How on earth did anyone plan a wedding before Pinterest was in existence?! Pinterest is my go to for everything! …Flowers, tuxes, decorations, and of course, a hairstyle for the big day!
So I know I want to wear my hair up.. I have heard from almost everyone.. “Oh my god, you need to wear your hair down”… But I am getting married outside in the end of June and I just have too much hair for all of that:) Plus, I have to show off my sexy back😉
I have had this picture in mind for quite a while.. So I knew how I wanted the front of my hair to look, but was clueless for the back:) I need a loose up-do.. Because when my hair is too tight to my head, I just look.. Weird.. Really weird:)

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So for the pictures of the back of the hair.. I actually was scrolling the Cosmo and saw the pins in an article about prom.. Prom hair, wedding hair.. Same thing right:) I really like the braid in each of them. And I think they could work nicely with the loose in front look. Plus I really like braids.

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I guess we will check back in after my hair trial!! :)”
~The Future Mrs. Bongiorno

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“Confessions Of A Future Bride” | Post 26

It’s officially spring which means we are a season closer to Rachel’s wedding day!!!! Today we get a little artsy craftsy!!😉

“I don’t think of myself as super crafty.. I would love to do crafts and Pinterest gives me some really good ideas, but I never follow through with them:)
But let me tell you this wedding stuff is pretty damn expensive! So I need a little DIY in my wedding life:)
So I had a few inspirations for table runners, but they were way too much money for me.. Who has the money to be spending $15-20 PER TABLE??!!! 

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Lucky for me.. Amy {My lovely co-worker/cousin/bridesmaid} and I were walking into Walmart and I didn’t even notice a cart full of burlap that was on super duper sale.. Now I am definitely more of a Target girl than a Walmart girl, but I have to give it to them on this one.. They were on sale for $.25 to $.50 each! So Amy and I raided the cart of all of the white, yellow and blue burlap. This provided me with all of the pretty inner layer of burlap like my inspirations had. That just left me with having to buy the actual burlap runner.. So again DIY, and me just being super cheap in general:), I bought large rolls of burlap from Walmart that Amy, Rebekah {My little sister} and I painstakingly separated in four runners each.. I had watched a video on how to do this on Pinterest and it was most definitely harder than it looked.. What a surprise:)

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And let me tell you.. I love the final results!! I am so happy with how they came out! I guess not every Pinterest craft is a fail :)”

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~The Future Mrs. Bongiorno

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“Confessions Of A Future Bride” | Post 25

And the saga continues….lol…just kidding…onto this weeks #weddingwednesdays post!

Week 25!

“Tuxes were something that I almost forgot about to be honest:) My Pinterest board has very little with anything concerning Arthur on the wedding day.. It’s all about me.. Duh!:)
I wanted grey tuxes for Art and the Groomsmen for sure.. I personally like grey suits better than black for a few reasons.. 1) I am having a summer wedding and I think black is too dark for the season 2) The guys stand in the sun during the ceremony and 3) Sometimes I think black tuxes can look a little waiter-ish:) So I was set on grey for Art and the guys.. Until I saw my inspiration picture on Pinterest. I love that the groom is in navy and the rest of the men are in grey. I thought it was so different than anything else I had seen, but it looks so good! The groom should stand out on the wedding day too right:)

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So off to Men’s Wearhouse we went. Arthur and I were joined by some of his groomsmen as the men were fitted for their tuxes.. This is definitely not as fun of a process as the girls getting their dresses:) But one more item to check off my To-Do List!

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And….
AHHH!!! I just realized that tomorrow {Or today for those reading the #WeddingWednesday post} marks 100 days until the wedding!”
~The Future Mrs. Bongiorno

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“Confessions Of A Future Bride” | Post 24

If you are new to the blog and are just following along, here’s what you missed:

Rachel, my business partner/assistant/second shooter, recently got engaged and with us being photographers, thought it would be cool document her whole wedding planning process. Not only to keep these memories but to maybe help out one of our readers who may be a future bride as well as get suggestions from you guys. Here are the past posts that you’ve missed.

  1. Post 1 ~ We got a glimpse of how Rachel and her fiancé, Arthur met! It’s an adorable story including some very young pictures of them.
  2. Post 2 ~ We got to hear the story of how Arthur proposed in Bermuda! Check out that post to see her ring! It’s beautiful!
  3. Post 3 ~ Rachel said YES TO THE DRESS!! Check it out to see her experience at David’s Bridal!
  4. Venues! Venues! Venues! Post 4 | Post 5 | Post 6 | are her weeks in search for the perfect venue! And in Post 7 you get to hear the place that she chose!!!
  5. Post 8 ~ We are back at Davids Bridal picking out the Bridesmaids Dresses as well as seeing who she chose to stand up there with her on the big day!!
  6. Post 9 (maid of honor & big sis), Post 10 (little sis), Post 11 (cousin), Post 12 (sister-in-law), Post 13 (best friend), and Post 14 (MEE) ~This is where Rachel introduces her bridesmaids and tells us the background stories of how she knows them. There are some pretty funny moments and awesome pictures!
  7. Post 15 ~ Engagement Pictures!!!! Here, we get to see Rachel’s engagement session. I also give some tips on how to make the most of your engagement session.
  8. Post 16 ~ All about the “Save The Dates.”
  9. Post 17 ~ All about the DJ and some songs you don’t want to miss being played at the wedding!
  10. Post 18 ~ Bridal Registry! This is a fun post because I filmed it rather than photographing it!! Check it out!!
  11. Post 19 ~ Speed Round Questions with the Fiance’ himself!!!
  12. Post 20 ~ Special Valentines Day Post!
  13. Post 21 ~ To Peek or Not To Peek…That is the question!!! Will Rachel be doing a first look?
  14. Post 22 ~ Flowers, Flowers, Flowers!!! Time to talk about the Bouquet.
  15. Post 23 ~ This post is all about the Wedding Cake! mmmmmmmmmm

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Thank you all for reading along!!! This has been such a fun experience!!!!! We truly appreciate the support!

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“108 days to go! Ahh!! 
So let’s see what I have accomplished to date:
√ Venue
√ Dress
√ DJ
√ Florist
√ Save the Dates
√ Engagement Photos
√ Photographer {Still a secret though:) }
√ Bridesmaid Dresses
√ Officiant
√ Hair
√ Hotel
√ Cake
Now what do I still have left to do… 
Tuxes {That will be coming up soon on the blog:) }
Makeup
Invitations
Favors
Seating Chart/Place cards
Shuttle {Almost all set with this one:) }
Miscellaneous Decorations: Wedding book, candles, table runners, table numbers, card box
Bridesmaid/Groomsman Gifts {This has been started}
Rehearsal Dinner
I’m sure there is a whole bunch of stuff I am missing.. Like I still haven’t bought that cake topper I had mentioned last week {I did find one though:)
Help me please! Remind me/tell me what I am missing and still need to tackle.. Was there something that you had and loved at your wedding or something that you wish you had? Or if you are not married yet, is there a must have… whatever.. special decoration or seating chart that I can steal from you:) Please give me ideas for all of those things that I have yet to complete!”
~ The Future Mrs. Bongiorno

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